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What does it mean to “look African”?

by Geraldine Amakihe, Contributing Writer


Sudanese model Alex Wek


Ethiopian Liya Kebede

I didn’t know I was African until I left Africa.

A loaded statement coming from a Nigerian; an Igbo girl. Nonetheless, it is exactly the way I used to feel, before my family relocated back to the States from Nigeria. Before I left the confines of my father country, declaring me an African person was redundant- a statement of the obvious – so I never had to consciously think about it. In Nigeria, particularly in my Igbo culture, my father’s name and my education were the two most important cultural indicators.

When I moved back to the US I quickly realized that I was now “African” and was constantly expected to represent a billion people. And that being anything other than “that African girl” was considered an upgrade.

Countless numbers of people thought they were complimenting me with reassurances that I didn’t “look African”. Some would wonder about my last name, and upon discovering that I was Nigerian, would give a range of responses;

“Oh wow! You’re African??”

“I thought you were just ‘regular’ black”.

“Oh! So, THAT explains your features!”

I remember an instance when a teacher told me that he just knew I was African because of my “big features”. I also remember cringing inwardly as he emphatically stressed that my African look basically boiled down to my full lips. That day, as I sat in his classroom, I fiercely wished that I could be the complete opposite of what he thought was the African look. I wanted to be thinner lipped and lighter skinned, solely to force him to recognize that his so-called African look, as dominating as the idea was, was a fallacy.

Whenever the African phenotype is mentioned, the stock image is usually the stereotypically flat description of dark skin, full lips and backsides, wide noses, and highly textured hair. To delve into the misconception even further, let’s lay out all the cards and attach “poor”, “dirty”, “backwards” and “starving” to the description. People seem to find it difficult to reconcile the notion that there are just as many people who might look this way, as there are people throughout the continent who don’t, but still identify as African, and that these people fall into all levels of social status. It’s irritating when we allow ourselves to mindlessly gorge on misinformation dispensed by myths and media, and continue to dismiss people for not fitting a narrow margin of the supposed African look.

Shouldn’t it go without mention that different people identify as African, and the current categories should be expanded? However, common sense ideas often seem to be the hardest to understand or implement. For instance, with a country like Nigeria, which is an arbitrary amalgamation of hundreds of ethnicities from Fulani to Igbo, facial features and body types vary incredibly. If we step outside of Nigeria, Alex Wek and Liya Kebede are both from East Africa.

They look amazingly different, and yet, by looking at them, people would assume only Alek as the “pure African”. None of these regions are homogenous, and prevailing features run the gamut from the deepest to the fairest of complexions.

Let’s continue to extrapolate that example and apply it to Africans in the diaspora; Colombians to Canadians, Americans to Argentinians and the catch-all African phenotype begins to dissolve. The African look is a multi-dimensional one, and we shouldn’t rely entirely on the media to provide accurate information. We should constantly challenge ourselves to think outside the proverbial box and to question ourselves, because in doing so, we can expand our familiarities, and in turn, challenge the status quo. It is also our responsible, as black people, to stop associating certain African features with poverty and backwardness.

We need to totally rethink Africa and, by extension, our perception of African beauty.

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123 Responses to “What does it mean to “look African”?”

  1. Hiwot 12 August 2010 at 8:19 am Permalink

    I’m Ethiopian and I can soooo relate to this. I always get that “Oh but you don’t look African” type of comment. Some people need to understand that Africans are extremely diverse, they can be lightskinned, chocolate, short, tall..it dont matter!

  2. Ruvarashe 12 August 2010 at 8:34 am Permalink

    The media does influence but how shallow would we all be if we allowed the media to be our ultimate source of information. I too am Zimbabwean (located in the southern region of Africa) and have experienced many interesting situations… the surprising thing is that it mostly comes from other black people. I hope for the day when we could all embrace each other in truth and not ignorance.

  3. LBell 12 August 2010 at 9:15 am Permalink

    I forget where I read this, but: There is more DNA diversity in the African continent alone than in the other six continents COMBINED. Regardless of where you fall on the evolution-creationism scale, if you think about it, this makes a lot of sense.

    I am dark-skinned with Afro-textured hair, full lips, and a full butt that’s starting to droop with age. :) I also have high cheekbones and a straight nose, which people have claimed as evidence of my non-African ancestry. I tell them, “Maybe so…and maybe not.”

    I never got the “Are you African?” comments until I went natural, and then it would be from other Africans who would tell me I looked like their little sister back home. I lived in Chicago for many years and sometimes black Chicagoans would ask me if I was from Africa because they said I had an accent. Um, no…it’s called standard English. (No offense…but that used to piss me off though.)

    I do find CollegeChick’s comments very interesting…and I’ve witnessed that same thought process as well working in a university. Even though I’m staff, I do sometimes think I’m treated differently because I “look African.”

  4. Andrea T 12 August 2010 at 11:05 am Permalink

    Well, just to chime in, it goes both ways. Recently in grad school I heard an African classmate on many occasions refer to some of the lighter-skinned girls with long hair as being mixed(they are definitely not). She saw a picture of my mother and said the same thing(again she is not, and the picture shows my whole family, including me and my sister, also with long hair). I overheard her and another African girl (each from different countries) discussing my (rather long) hair. I think that to her, seeing my mother’s picture cleared it all up. They were asking me questions about “What kind of hair I had” when it wasn’t straightened (I’m dark-skinned so I guess I disrupted their theories). I wasn’t supposed to have long hair b/c I was dark, the light girls had long hair because they were mixed. They didn’t learn that from any of us, it’s what they really believed.
    We’re such a hodgepodge…different ethnicities, different racial mixes (and let’s not ignore the influx of people from the Arab world into parts of Eastern Africa…it’s what spread Islam across the continent and into Spain after all). And Tutsis were favored by the Belgians for their “straighter” “European” features, and the resentment from that lasted well over a century and into the genocide in the early 90′s.
    I just get tired of people acting like the ignorance only comes from Black Americans. We all make silly assumptions about each other.

  5. Andrea T 12 August 2010 at 11:08 am Permalink

    Oh, and not Ethiopian but I get tired of hearing people try to put them all in the same box in terms of features, etc. as well. I’ve heard people insist that they all have the same hair and skin tone and make silly comments about that. So I’ve heard people told that they were too dark or their hair was the wrong texture to “really” be Ethiopian or Eritrean…

  6. sba 12 August 2010 at 11:38 am Permalink

    Do any Africans get grilled by other Africans abou tnot “looking” or “being African”? I get that A LOT. I’m at a point now where I have to fake a “Ghanaian accent” around Africans just to avoid being questioned about MY being from Ghana.

  7. b. 12 August 2010 at 12:15 pm Permalink

    MissyD, Ayanna and mek summed up so much for me. I just want to say that I’m enjoying reading these comments and I’m learning a lot from the various experiences. Thanks BGLH and Geraldine for putting this out there.

  8. FunkyHairChic 12 August 2010 at 2:10 pm Permalink

    If I had a dime for anytime I’ve heard that “But you don’t look African” comment. I am of Ghanaian descent and many people wouldn’t know unless I told them my name. They would ask where my name originates from and then sparks the dialogue. Mostly other Africans know that I am African without having to ask. They would look at my last name or my features and automatically know exactly where I’m from. I have the full lips, wide nose, dark skin, high cheekbones and big butt, but I still get that perplexing question, “You’re African??? Really?” It’s crazy to me.

  9. alice 12 August 2010 at 3:36 pm Permalink

    what people really need to understand is that human life originated in africa and every phenotype and genotype is simply a mutation or evolution of the darkest skin and eyes and highest textured hair based on where subsequent generation migrated to and settled. dark skin and kinky coarse hair is a trait designed to protect people from the hot sun…so as early humans migrated away from africa and the equator…they evolved to not produce as much melanin (skin hair and eyes) and their hair became less textured because the climate was not as hot and humid. This is why we see that early Europeans had blonde silky fine hair and blue eyes because they were not exposed to the sun as much therefore they didnt not need to produce as much melanin to protect from the UV rays and heat. its ironic that those features are considered the “most beautifull” (not by me but in general) because in actually they suffer more often from sun damage and in turn skin cancer.

  10. Sia 12 August 2010 at 3:50 pm Permalink

    i could’ve written this piece…story of my life! “you don’t look African.” my own people want to throw me out of the club!
    honestly, the best thing to do is to turn it around and ask them, “well what exactly does an African look like, darling?”
    it shuts them up every time.

    One foot in, one foot out…
    @SiaNyorkor_NJ

  11. Sheal 12 August 2010 at 3:50 pm Permalink

    Some of the comments here are shocking in their ignorance so let’s discuss Charlize Theron, why not.
    She is as ‘African’ in race & culture, which is what this discussion is referring to, as George Bush is native American, which is zilch.

    Afrikaans is the name that the dutch imigrants to South Africa in the 18/19th century called their native European dutch dialect. Why change the name of their language? As an insult and gesture of contempt for the black natives. In calling their european language Africaans they were stating that Africa belongs to them and not to ‘the blacks’. That was the dream of white supremecists in Africa, of a day when to belong to mother Africa means to be white not black.

    And if they had had their way black African people would have been wiped out just like the native American Indians.
    Wake up people!!!!!

  12. Sheal 12 August 2010 at 3:54 pm Permalink

    Some of the comments here are shocking in their ignorance so let’s discuss Charlize Theron, why not.
    She is as ‘African’ in race & culture, which is what this discussion is referring to, as George Bush is native American, which is zilch.

    Afrikaans is the name that the dutch imigrants to South Africa in the 18/19th century called their native European dutch dialect. Why change the name of their language? As an insult and gesture of contempt for the black natives. In calling their european language Africaans they were stating that Africa belongs to them and not to ‘the blacks’. That was the dream of white supremecists in Africa, of a day when to belong to mother Africa means to be white not black.

    And if they had had their way black African people would have been almost completely wiped out just like the native American Indians.

  13. Q 12 August 2010 at 4:04 pm Permalink

    Great article!

    @MissyD: I can relate to your story. I’m also from Charleston, SC; when I moved to GA and NC everyone also asked me if I was African because of my features. As a matter of fact, I met the writer of this article because people thought we were the same person.

  14. thelady 12 August 2010 at 5:39 pm Permalink

    Africa is the most genetically diverse continent. Any facial feature you can think of is also found in Africa. I wish people would expand their minds and do some book learning (just google it).

  15. maria 12 August 2010 at 6:43 pm Permalink

    This is a topic on which many Black folk need to educate themselves on. It’s so embaressing to hear how ignorant we are of one another. I don’t get the ‘Regular Black’ comment either, why aren’t other people of African descent considered regular? When i think about it that word i would associate with plain. We as a people stand out among others we are anyting but ‘Regular’. Also, none of us have originated from America, the Caribbean or any other place you may find us living today alien to the African Continent.

  16. maria 12 August 2010 at 6:57 pm Permalink

    At Sheal, thank you for the little insight into the South African background. I also felt it an insult that Charlize Theron is looked on as one of the many faces of Africa. She is as European as her name.

  17. nana 12 August 2010 at 8:17 pm Permalink

    This was very interesting. I’m not too bothered whether people say I look African or not because that is their opinion which does not necessarily define me. In fact, as I get older I am learning to love my features as they are. Unfortunately I find that as black pleople, we tend to judge each other harshly on several issues. One of the problems I have to deal with is I get judged for the way I speak. I am African but went to a British school as a child. There are so many times I’ve been told,”You are so white” or “You sound so white”. I think we need to learn to embrace each other as we are. The only way inter-racial relations can improve if black people judge each other a lot less.

  18. Sister Teddy 12 August 2010 at 9:49 pm Permalink

    Could have been an interesting story & feedback, but unreadable because the advertising overlay made about a third of each screen unreadable. Is looking African a function of using certain devices for your hair? That is the message the layout gives.

  19. anonymous 12 August 2010 at 11:35 pm Permalink

    I’ve recently begun to envy Africans. Working in my schools African Student Union really taught me to appreciate the diversity in music, food, and appearances of the different groups of Africans (east, west, north etc.) When people say someone “looks African” the uninspired stereotypical reasoning behind it is the coarse hair, dark skin, or fuller features. But if you look at the different countries, really look at the people from different regions, you can find a lot of similarity in their features. The same way Koreans, Australian aborigines, and many more racial sub-sects share similar features. As a black woman, I can’t help feeling robbed when I look in the mirror and see muted features linking me to…me.

  20. Vanisha 12 August 2010 at 11:55 pm Permalink

    heck… i wish people asked me was i african : / what a compliment!
    although, i am african-american –but i remember when my sister was dating this nigerian guy and when he brought us around nigerian ladies that were only speaking their native tongue, i asked him “do you think that they know that we (me and my sister) dont speak their language??” he said “oh yeah, they know you all are not african”
    ..just my luck lol. but i wonder how do they know?!

    but when i think to myself “she’s looks like shes from africa” i dont mean full lips, dark skin etc persay.. actually it’s usually the bone structure that gives it away lol. and that goes for all africans :]
    take it as a compliment.. a huge one.. cause i’d give anything to know where my ancestors were from in africa

  21. Dennis 13 August 2010 at 1:00 am Permalink

    We all will have different opinions (as witnessed here) based on our own personal experiences, however… they are just that, “your own” personal experience. As entertaining, sad and down right heartbreaking some of these stories may be, it clearly proved,(to me anyway) that not only do “We” need to learn about us but so does the rest of society. As much as we may not like to admit it, we are ALL “mixed” so to speak. Of course some more so than others but not one of us can claim to be “pure.” I’m far from an authority on the history of the Black race, I’m just simply a brother that loves to read and do research on such. If anyone SERIOUSLY cares to learn, for starters, may I suggest two books written by J.A. Rodgers, Sex & Race vols. 1 & 2 and anything else this profound and well traveled historian has written.

  22. Leo the Yardie Chick 13 August 2010 at 1:11 am Permalink

    @ Nana – I hate that ‘sounding/acting white’ jab as well. As if every black person on the face of this earth is supposed to speak slang (i.e. not sound white) and, as I’ve realized from spending time on the net, supposedly wanting to do well in academics over athletics is ‘being white’. *eye roll* It’s bad enough when non-blacks have such backward concepts of black people, but it’s worse when the ignorance comes from members of your own race.

  23. Clara Disi 13 August 2010 at 1:27 am Permalink

    I think it’s funny your said “Regular Black” because my best friend and I use the word “RBs” to describe African Americans. Africans have a look and I myself can spot a full Nigerian from anywhere. I think maybe because there are so many looks to Africa and most people from the specific countries can only spot their own peeps so you can’t expect others to do the same so they just say you look African.

  24. yo 13 August 2010 at 3:40 am Permalink

    People are so diverse in Africa from the darkest to the lightest. And I’m not even talking about those who are mixed. People need to do some research and educate themselves,really

  25. dEB 13 August 2010 at 5:48 am Permalink

    africans come in all colors. There are white africans as well.

  26. ChellBellz 13 August 2010 at 7:08 am Permalink

    I’m West Indian which to me is just another way of saying my African Ancestors were dropped off somewhere else. I never understood why a African American couldn’t embrace that they are of African Descent. this “regular” black I get it, okay if you were born in America and have deep roots nine times out of time there was some mixing and mingling and loss of identity. I’m fully aware that people have different looks but when it boils down to it, people get on my nerves when speaking of Africa as a whole country. To refer to you as just African is annoying. I mean there are tons of different looks in African Nations. I think that people need to realize it might do them some good to just open a book, or turn to an international station.

    My African friends get so much grief, as well as me for saying I’m West Indian even though I was born in D.C. My family is well traveled and saying I’m born in DC but West Indian is such as damn issue for black people who have no clue where their African roots lead to. I partly think its a mental thing that oh you still “a ni**er” which i have been told by American Blacks. It’s fustrating because they are dead serious. My grandfather told me not to bother trying to figure out the American way of thinking because you’ll wonder for days.

  27. ChellBellz 13 August 2010 at 7:13 am Permalink

    I’m reading more and more comments and I’m truely understanding the throught process of my grandfather so many of you who can relate to this story prove his theory right, and “some” Black Americans need to pick up a book and start researching their backgrounds maybe to give them an identity. It’s funny because my friends of different colors would never give up and say oh I’m Regular Indian, Chinese, Japanese…if they know where their family is from they rep it, not matter how many generations have lived here. But i also wonder if Black Americans since they just don’t know where their family comes from they are just content with it. I wouldn’t be…i never was as a child. I knew my family was special and not really grounded in DC.

  28. Bishop Corbett 13 August 2010 at 3:48 pm Permalink

    After reading these blogs, I just had to chime in. No, I am NOT satisfied, as a Black “African-American” that I don’t know where my ancestry begins. I have always said that my heritage was either stolen by the White man or sold by the black African. I have many African friends and I am truly jealous of them. I am jealous because they can reach back hundreds, thousands of years and know their history. Mine was cut off when my Great-great-great-great grandparents set foot on this land. One day, I hope to visit Africa, I don’t care what continent or part. Then I can die satisfied and whole!

  29. dvine 13 August 2010 at 3:49 pm Permalink

    i’m african-american and i’m just considered black.. lol.. you are from the “MOTHERLAND” so maybe that’s why ppl are so amazed.. you actually have a culture and a language.. I feel like we were robbed of that..

  30. Haymanot 13 August 2010 at 10:42 pm Permalink

    I’m Ethiopian and I’ve heard it all…It used to bother me when people tell me that I cannot be African and attempt to come up with what I really am. LOL..but now I simply try to educate everybody that I happen to interact with that questions my ancestry, especially for African Americans who have been for hundreds of years denied their connection to Africa.

  31. imcafeaulait 13 August 2010 at 10:57 pm Permalink

    @BishopCorbett The thing is, with MOST of us “African-Americans” is by the time we get to this current generation of “blacks” that have, who’ve had 5-6 (or 7)generations here, we are likely mixed up with SO MANY DIFFERENT cultures and nationalities that we are no longer just “African” Americans. Most of us have some part Native American, some French, German, Irish, Italian, to the Caribbean and further south, etc. This is why our president spoke so much truth when he said we are literally “mongrels”… Almost NO two “African” American families can claim the exact same heritage/ethnic lineage…. That’s the nature of OUR unique experience here in the Americas — for about 5,6 centuries now… The same goes for the black people of Canada and Central America. The Europeans infiltrated (and mixed with) the Native land/culture, at the same time bringing over our “pure” African ancestors with them, to be mixed even further… We can’t authentically claim any one culture as our own, at this point, historically. However (good or bad), we now have this mixed-up heritage that we now must claim as our own — as blacks FROM (born in) America. We are about THE MOST “mongrel”-ized people in the world, if you think about it. Most of us are quite removed from Africa by now, genetically. This is now our culture, as blacks in the American experience, like it or not…

  32. Romy 14 August 2010 at 1:51 am Permalink

    Dalu Geraldine Amakihe!

    I enjoy reading your post and I am happy you wrote about this topic at BGLH.

  33. Abbie 14 August 2010 at 5:22 am Permalink

    no none has ever asked me if i’m african. I’m very dark full lips the nose, butt and hips.but people don’t believe im Yoruba Nigerian. But my hair is grows fast. People (mainly africans) assume I’m Senegalese or Hausa. and my family joke and a say i have “indian hair”

    I’ve always understood the difference between the people groups in africa. and an Ethiopian look as African as a Ghanaian

  34. Shukura 14 August 2010 at 1:47 pm Permalink

    finally
    a great post

    a real post

    thankyou

  35. Barbara 14 August 2010 at 1:59 pm Permalink

    I can related to what she is saying. My parents are from Ghana but I myself was born in the states. Most people think I am black american but when they find out my parents are from Ghana then all of a sudden they see the “African” features in me. Some people have told me, “You are not black black”. I have never heard the term “black black” before. Both black americans and non black people look at me differently after they find out I am Ghanaian American. I don’t get it. I was born and raised in the states. I am more American than I am African!

    She is right that Africans look so different. I can tell if someonee is from the West, vs the South vs the East for the most part. As for the pure part no can assume because someone is from Africa that they are pure. I used to think I was pure myself until I did some digging around in some family pictures. Both my great-grandmother and great-great grandmother were very fair. I don’t know why I even assumed we were pure anyway because on both my father and mother’s side they have English last names. I just assumed that because Ghana was colonized that some family member just adopted the last name. I always get asked why I have an English last name.

    And no my parents do not speak Swahili or African. ;)

  36. Shelly 14 August 2010 at 3:30 pm Permalink

    Good Afternoon to all, I think that everyone needs to remember that BLACK is a color just like white, not a race. The next thing we should all remember is that every person that looks black do not come from Africa. Please have a wonderful day.

  37. kechy 15 August 2010 at 6:00 pm Permalink

    @maria, Charlize Thereon is a face of Africa. just because she is WHITE doesn’t mean she is not. its like saying that it is an insult for all other races except the Native Americans to be considered American. she is an African. I am a Nigerian and I take offence to people thinking that every other race except black isn’t African. this is 2010 people. we to starting accepting the fact that no one race owns a particular geographical region as much as they want to.

    great post by the way

  38. telle 16 August 2010 at 2:51 pm Permalink

    @kechy well we are not accepted in europe! Britain is the only country that recognizes africans born in the uk as british. the rest like germany, italy, france etc still call us DIRTY negro inmmigrants and other things! they always say we don’t belong here! well i’m not saying the british are not racist! but anyway why do we have to accept caucasians as africans just because they grew up in africa?? when they don’t accept us or acknowledge us no matter how good we are at what we do? why do we have to justify them? and i don’t know how much you know about SA.. but the country is run by the europeans! and that’s what maria is objecting to! WHITE SUPREMACY!!!

  39. telle 16 August 2010 at 2:58 pm Permalink

    one thing that worries me about some of these comments is that most african kids born in the states and in europe call themselves more european or more american than african! i am zimbabwean and my name is french i hate it because i am african not french… 100% african no matter where i grew up! integration doesn’t mean forgetting where you come from. you don’t see white men with african names! yes just let them take over! we have already lost our customs and traditions! they keep theirs alive! wake up africans!

  40. seekandushallalwaysfind 16 August 2010 at 8:54 pm Permalink

    The problem with black Americans identifying with Africa is that it’s not a “natural” thing. It is something that we must consciously remember to “keep alive” within ourselves. If most of us were to go by how we feel on a day-to-day basis, we would not feel any authentic connection to Africa, at all. Additionally, most blacks in America have not a clue where in Africa their ancestry originates. I remember when I was growing up, and from what I gathered, most of the adults around me were under the impression that Africans did not identify with (and shunned) American blacks almost as ferociously as any white society in the world. Coupled with how we, as Americans are conditioned to view black Africans as a whole, on T.V. and just in our culture, period, its mainly poor, un-hygenic, starving, tribal and diseased — those of us born in the U.S.A. are systematically discouraged (conditioned) from identifying with Africa from infants. To reflect on it all brings up so much sadness (and anger) within…

  41. Olivia Amakihe 17 August 2010 at 2:09 pm Permalink

    Wonderful post Geraldine..it introduced a subject that should be discussed more often and also created an interesting dialogue judging by all the comments. Great Job sis!

  42. b. 18 August 2010 at 12:02 pm Permalink

    @ seekandushallalwaysfind

    +1

  43. LaughingEyes 18 August 2010 at 7:05 pm Permalink

    i am a Motswana student in Canada, BC. through the cooperative education programme my uni offers to its students, i have first hand experiences with student life across campuses-the highs and the low associated with my heritage- what in some circles is referred to as africanism, blackness, exoticism, or alienism. you cannot fathom the depth of the last statement but before i explain what i mean by that and tie it to the topic at hand, let me first extent a heartfelt apology to Mek on behalf of that individual for his careless use of words. Mek wrote, “My most hurtful experience with looking African was with an African student from Botswana during college.” such encounters -i have observed- have a tendency to damn not just the individual -and rightly so- but a people. As a people, that does not define us. on the contrary, Batswana are a loving people by nature and origin. this in itself is a sweeping statement but in it is a truth. and that young man needed a hug! LOL. if i run into him on one of my visits to Botswana, i imagine i will have a sign-post written in bold letters: FREE HUGS and he will oblige me!

    my uni, and its hosting city, is predominantly white. when i first arrived, i felt like an alien. in many, if not all settings, i felt -which i think i continue to feel to this day but i have learnt to ignore without even realising it- the stares, shielded the ignorant questions, and entertained the silliness to a point. even now, 3 years later it does not seize to amaze me that even my friends dont know any better. mind you these are a mozaic of sorts- wrt to race, religion, education and gender. and no setting is except- home (the roomies, landlord), school (the professors, students), the church (the sinners and saints alike), etc. its comments that were meant to be a complement but are biased that sting more than those that were meant to humiliate. but all the same they are hurtful. im currently based in calgary, AB and there more blacks represented in different capacities and the experience is not the same as in uni but its totally not that different.

    if it was not for what Mek said, i would have read through the article and the comments assuming the victim part. being an african, i am somewhat guilty of that thinking about african americans. in more occassions than one, i have taken offense to being called black and offered plenty of reason as to why its only proper to refer to me as an african as a way of excluding myself from some of the -ve stereotypes attached to being black (read african american). personally, i would be hard-pressed to find africans in the diaspora who did not suffer from this bias from time to time. by no means am i justifying it, but exposing it for what it is.

    depending on the day, my being an african is a + or a -.

  44. kechy 19 August 2010 at 6:23 pm Permalink

    @telle, i understand what you’re saying and i do know a lot about SA and Africa as a whole and i am an active supporter of all things African to the extent that I’ve dropped my foreign name because i feel i don’t need it.
    yes, it is true that most European countries see the blacks/Africans there as dirty immigrants but why should we do the same here. why don’t we be the bigger people and accept them even though we are 100% certain that they are too stupid and ignorant to understand and accept that we are all human beings.
    the truth is we as a people; black people, should start taking care of ourselves and develop ourselves…that’s the only way we are going to get our respect. fighting and retaliation would just make them open their mouths to insult us the more. this is the reason why i am angry with African leaders and youths. the earlier we start to do things together and grow together, the better for us. (hint: look at the Asians)

    so you know, i am a Nigerian, born in Nigeria, raised in Nigeria and currently schooling in Nigeria though i might do my post grad abroad.
    Africa needs help and that help has to come from us Africans; in Africa. not from an external source because we are the ones that actually know where the shoe hurts.

  45. Lamariposanegra 23 September 2010 at 12:23 pm Permalink

    @ Sheal. You know what else is ignorant? That people think that Native Americans were all wiped out and that there aren’t anymore Natives here in the US. *Sigh*

  46. Lamariposanegra 23 September 2010 at 12:30 pm Permalink

    @ChellBellz African Americans haven’t lost their African-ness because of mixing. Yes mixing went on, but during slavery Africans weren’t allowed to speak their native languages or hold on to any cultural identity they had from their countries because slave owners knew that if they didn’t have their culture they would truly be a broken people and better for enslavement. There was also no record of where each individual slave was from. Why would there be? They didn’t care as long as they had one to work their crops. So how about you open up a history book.

  47. TAB 16 October 2010 at 6:31 pm Permalink

    Totally posting late here but I can totally relate to the OP. I’m from Kenya, now in the U.S., and I’m constantly told here that I don’t “look” or “sound” African. I look more like Liya Kebede w/r/t features and complexion than Alek Wek. It’s funny how people who’ve never set foot anywhere on the continent feel qualified to decide who looks “African.” It is refreshing to see so many BGLH posters who understand that we come in a wide variety of skin tones, hair textures, facial features and body types … without twisting our desire not to be stereotyped into some sort of bizarre slam against African Americans. It’s happened before. *smh* Thank you, Geraldine Amakihe, for this post.

  48. dami 28 October 2010 at 6:10 pm Permalink

    I have had this problem all through out my school up till now..people dont have the decency to ask about my background so they just write me off as just being black in colour and nothing else. I am nigerian both parents are fully. people have thought that i am half indian and half ‘black’..or somalian or carriabean. all which i dont mind, but having such defined features doesnt mean that your not african, puh-lease dont argue with what i do know.

  49. kona 16 November 2010 at 10:55 pm Permalink

    “are you AFRICAN?”

    I am darkskinned with very high cheekbones, full lips, a fleshy nose, and almond eyes. I am African-American, meaning my parents and grandparents are Black and were born here in America. Growing up, people told me I looked African or joked about me being African, because they associated that identity with ugliness. I was never called ugly though, some ppl even told me I look like an African princess. And other people who are African have asked me where I am from. People still ask me am I African. I don’t hate the fact that they ask me that, I am proud of my heritage and to be a descendant of Africans, but people place stigma on African-ness because they are ignorant and I find it insulting that they use it as a joke. People need to enlighten themselves about their history. It bothers me alot.

  50. selena 20 November 2010 at 3:22 pm Permalink

    I am born black in America; my father is scot/irish & African American, my mother is African-American, light-skinned, european features. Get over this nonsense! The 1 drop rule still reigns. If you’re mixed you not IN as anything other than your dominant race which will always trump your precious “mixtures.” I have aquiline features and my skin color is called “beige”, a ridiculous description of a skin color. More like ginger according to a photographer/artist whose judgement I trust. I identify as an “African-derived” person. I almost NEVER mention my mixtures. I also hate the fact that Europeans have so divided blacks in the diaspora that we’re incapable of getting beyond the divisiveness, the puerile notion that to be white-identified is to be better. It’s about POWER, folks, and until Africa gets rid of it egomaniacal despots and its woeful tribalism , blacks, wherever we are, will suffer from the perception that we’re tainted. Europeans vary in phenotypes based upon geography. Southern Italians are treated like dirt by Germans and nordic types. Get over the silliness, unite and create a better world. Bye.


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