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11 August 2010 ~ 123 Comments

What does it mean to “look African”?

by Geraldine Amakihe, Contributing Writer


Sudanese model Alex Wek


Ethiopian Liya Kebede

I didn’t know I was African until I left Africa.

A loaded statement coming from a Nigerian; an Igbo girl. Nonetheless, it is exactly the way I used to feel, before my family relocated back to the States from Nigeria. Before I left the confines of my father country, declaring me an African person was redundant- a statement of the obvious – so I never had to consciously think about it. In Nigeria, particularly in my Igbo culture, my father’s name and my education were the two most important cultural indicators.

When I moved back to the US I quickly realized that I was now “African” and was constantly expected to represent a billion people. And that being anything other than “that African girl” was considered an upgrade.

Countless numbers of people thought they were complimenting me with reassurances that I didn’t “look African”. Some would wonder about my last name, and upon discovering that I was Nigerian, would give a range of responses;

“Oh wow! You’re African??”

“I thought you were just ‘regular’ black”.

“Oh! So, THAT explains your features!”

I remember an instance when a teacher told me that he just knew I was African because of my “big features”. I also remember cringing inwardly as he emphatically stressed that my African look basically boiled down to my full lips. That day, as I sat in his classroom, I fiercely wished that I could be the complete opposite of what he thought was the African look. I wanted to be thinner lipped and lighter skinned, solely to force him to recognize that his so-called African look, as dominating as the idea was, was a fallacy.

Whenever the African phenotype is mentioned, the stock image is usually the stereotypically flat description of dark skin, full lips and backsides, wide noses, and highly textured hair. To delve into the misconception even further, let’s lay out all the cards and attach “poor”, “dirty”, “backwards” and “starving” to the description. People seem to find it difficult to reconcile the notion that there are just as many people who might look this way, as there are people throughout the continent who don’t, but still identify as African, and that these people fall into all levels of social status. It’s irritating when we allow ourselves to mindlessly gorge on misinformation dispensed by myths and media, and continue to dismiss people for not fitting a narrow margin of the supposed African look.

Shouldn’t it go without mention that different people identify as African, and the current categories should be expanded? However, common sense ideas often seem to be the hardest to understand or implement. For instance, with a country like Nigeria, which is an arbitrary amalgamation of hundreds of ethnicities from Fulani to Igbo, facial features and body types vary incredibly. If we step outside of Nigeria, Alex Wek and Liya Kebede are both from East Africa.

They look amazingly different, and yet, by looking at them, people would assume only Alek as the “pure African”. None of these regions are homogenous, and prevailing features run the gamut from the deepest to the fairest of complexions.

Let’s continue to extrapolate that example and apply it to Africans in the diaspora; Colombians to Canadians, Americans to Argentinians and the catch-all African phenotype begins to dissolve. The African look is a multi-dimensional one, and we shouldn’t rely entirely on the media to provide accurate information. We should constantly challenge ourselves to think outside the proverbial box and to question ourselves, because in doing so, we can expand our familiarities, and in turn, challenge the status quo. It is also our responsible, as black people, to stop associating certain African features with poverty and backwardness.

We need to totally rethink Africa and, by extension, our perception of African beauty.

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123 Responses to “What does it mean to “look African”?”

  1. okunoba 1 December 2010 at 3:05 pm Permalink

    I got into a heated conversation with my somalian friend today about what is considered an African look. According to her, African look is when u are dark, with nappy or tuff hair and flat nose. I was not only shocked but also appalled that these narrow discription was coming from a fellow African. I tried to tell her that Africa as many diverse looks and that it was wrong to put the look of a whole continent into one basket of the bantu look. I think she was trying to say East and North Africans don`t look like Africans but she couldn`t say it, realizing how stupid and ignorant that will sound. The sadness of the whole discussion was how upset she got from me trying to explain to her that Africa as many looks, from being dark skinned to light, from nappy hair to having straight hair from having a flat nose to having a pointy one, all these looks and more, makes up the true African look. Africa as the most diverse looking people when compared to other continents.

    I have always wondered y some Africans and African Americans think because they are light skinned, have a straight hair and nose, they don`t look African? Could it be that they are ashemed to be seen as Africans? I guess we are still suffering from the effectrs of slavery and colonisation.

    We shall overcome someday.

    • Amaka 29 February 2012 at 12:14 am Permalink

      That’s so stupid she would think that bing a Nigerian girl with east African friends I noticed how they want to look so white sometimes it’s funny cuz whites don’t even want them n when they come to America they are still referred to as that African stopp denyng Ur history jare!

  2. Kurly Kels 24 January 2011 at 2:29 pm Permalink

    I’ve been told for many years that I “look african” and I think it means 1 of 3 things. First off, the person could be plain-out ignorant and can’t tell black people (for the lack of a better term)from African people. Secondly, they might be refering to the way one might carry themselves with pride and dignity. Thirdly, the truly ignorant use it as an insult to say you look dark and rough. Personally, I don’t care what they mean by it nor am I insulted or flattered. Plainly-put..I’m NOT African. If I were African maybe I’d care about whatever that person may have been trying to allude to. I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t irritating though.

    • wini 25 July 2011 at 7:59 am Permalink

      Your right Kurly…. i was told i looked African by 2 members in my church! my reply was ‘well we are all African descendents!’ And yes while I am not insulted or flattered… i am finding it as irritating as hell! Hence this reply….

      I’m not dark, not rough as the above reply quoted, I had just sang a solo was being served in the kitchen, was having a conversation about going to Jamaica for a holiday….2 people members suddenly piped up….’we thought u were African!’ I couldn’t believe it!! Maybe there were other factors that irritate people – who knows!

      Just because someone has high cheek bones and smooth features it doest give u the right to put them in a box!! We were an enslaved race of people and our features are many…

      • DeeJ085 2 March 2012 at 6:13 pm Permalink

        I agree that people, even I’m guilty of making assumptions about African features. Some Africans from certain countries don’t look any different from African Americans. Then there are some Africans that have distinct features according to what country they’re from. I hear alot that I look Ethiopian which I’m not offended by, but my family is not Ethiopian, we’re Americans. I have a pointy nose, high cheek bones, and almond shaped eyes and I guess that means African to some.
        But black people no matter what our nationality have a million different complexions, features and hair types. Some people are only used to seeing black people that look a certain way.

  3. MK 11 March 2011 at 4:46 pm Permalink

    This article is very well written in that it captures the way that Africa is still today viewed as a homogeneous mass not the diverse CONTINENT with more than 50 countries!
    As an African I find it surprising how some people say: “you don’t look African” and fail to see it as essentially an insult smdh
    I guess the only way to overcome such ignorance is as my lecturer put it is to ‘demystify’ Africa and the myths associated with it, of course the media images of Africa do not help as the words “starving” and “poor” have become synonymous with Africa.

    here is an interesting video on this very topic: httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHLadVZyofM
    it made me laugh as only the ignorant comments about Africa can sometimes do :)
    On different occasions i have been asked: if i had seen sliced bread/ if i had ever seen a car; how come i could speak english so well when i had just come to the uk; did i live in a hut; if i had lived with lions etc (you’d be surprised i could go on and on)
    although i must admit when asked the last question i did say i had had a lion named simba and rode a zebra to school
    (sad thing is i think they believed me smh)

    • Vickytoya 19 July 2011 at 7:55 am Permalink

      It’s funny because I always get Africans who come up to me and tell me that I look African and I don’t look American. They say I don’t act like I’m American because I’m really nice, polite, smart and set a positive example. I’m like Whaaaaa? Are you friggin serious..lol. They don’t seem to realize that America is a melting pot of cultures. And there are plenty of positive respectful people in America I know plenty of them.lol. I just find it funny.

      • Tia 22 September 2011 at 9:36 am Permalink

        i so agree sis, i guess we both have our stereotypes about each other ( continental africans and African American). i get the same thing.

  4. Happykinks 18 July 2011 at 12:35 am Permalink

    Many people think that im not African in fact I have had one person who tried to correct me saying that I am African American, well in a way, yes, because I was born in America, but I refuse to classify myself as that.

    I am NIGERIAN not African American and I would never see myself as African American due to the culture differences. If I go to Nigeria, I have family there, we speak Igbo, wear different attire, eat different foods and have traditions that tie a stronger knot within our family. And if I say I am African American it removes the cultural aspect from my name.

    • Amakaamakaobiechie 8 March 2012 at 8:36 pm Permalink

      Yessss oh preach I hate when my friends are like no Ur African American like we are I’m like no I’m Nigerian two different things!

  5. Mira 15 August 2011 at 12:35 am Permalink

    ALOT of people are filled with ignorance. they just need help getting out of the closeth and exploring what they dont know :)

  6. Gerald 20 September 2011 at 1:36 am Permalink

    I am an African-American male that just happen by and I love the posting and the video. What I like best is the pride you have in self you are wise beyond your years.

  7. Tia 22 September 2011 at 9:35 am Permalink

    What the hell is “regular ” black! lol please tell me, the pereson who made that statement is so ignorant about Africa and themselves.

    Africa is sooo diverse, its a shame that people think there is “one way ” to look African as you described. I am AA and i can pretty much tell when someone is African, mind you it isn’t always their “look” but it can also be how they carry themselves, for instance, it seems more Africans use oils than perfumes as fragrance.Africans often look more “serious” and its just something i sometimes know by living around many of them .

    It could be the mannerisms or the way their eyes are shaped, i know that sounds crazy. I can pretty much tell if someone is from Senegal/ Mali/ Guinea. sometimes Ghanian. There is no one way to look AFrican, some of you look like us AA and vice versa and not all have broad features and are very dark skinned. I am often mistaken for Guinean myself here in NYC. specifically a Fulani or Mandinka.

    I find it fascinating how diverse the continent is. I am already pretty interested in African cultures and I am discovering alot of things about the Continent. Unfortunately people’s images of how Africans look is pretty drilled into their heads, and when Africa is showcased why is it never a big urban city or everyday people , but its always some tribesman or someone half naked? that really urks me.

    I think the new generation of Africans born here and young Africans such as yourself will really challenge alot of people’s misconceptions about what being African is,and hopefully for the better.

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  9. Nichole 2 March 2012 at 10:18 pm Permalink

    Everyone that is Black is of African heritage. Separating Blacks into groups based on where they are from just makes Black as a people more separated.

  10. Onyedi 8 March 2012 at 8:32 pm Permalink

    I can’t begin to say how many times I’ve dealt with the “OMG you’re African?” “You don’t look African”…Or the “You’re pretty for an African” (I guess that’s supposed to be a compliment?). Despite being born in America, I’ve never hesitated to let any one know that I’m Nigerian, or to be more specific Igbo. Those roots are what define me.
    It irritates me how the ignorance and misconceptions about Africa as a whole and Africans still prevail to date.
    When people learn we have high rise buildings and high-ways in Nigeria, along with cars and houses that would rival some of the ones seen in the States its amazing.
    It never fails to amuse me how some folks upon learning your “African” (that term annoys because it is so broad), can’t wait to tell you about the trip they took to Africa, but never seem to mention a country as if Africa is one big country, and you should know about the things they’re talking about.
    In this day and age there is no excuse for ignorance. Knowledge is power.

  11. Patience 11 March 2012 at 5:17 pm Permalink

    People can be so ignorant . Africa is a diverse continent , so African comes in different Shades. I am Liberian ,and when I tell peopel that I am African they are shocked, their first response is you don’t look African I thought you were from the Island. They always assumed that My mom and i are from the Island. I ask someone that last time what she meant that I did not look African ,and she said my features were not like the average African that she encounter.

  12. Adeola 16 April 2012 at 3:38 pm Permalink

    I have always been told that I do not look African and I get told this just because of the simple fact I have small facial feature. Even with my very African name people still never guess I’m African they say you can’t be Nigerian or you don’t look it. I think to myself I do look African because I’m African and this is what me as an African looks like I am 100 % Nigerian just born and raised in England.


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