Combing Your Hair – The Right Way

3. Finger Combing

Fingers are the first and for some the only tool to use. When detangling with your fingers make sure your nails are smooth and do not snag your hair as you part it. Ideally try to make use of your finger pads rather than nails to separate the strands.

4. Seamless Combs

If you have upgraded to a wide spaced shower comb well done! The next step up is a seamless comb which essentially has no rough edges. These are fairly expensive in comparison to a regular comb but are well worth the investment in the long run.

5. Brushes

If your hair is fine and split end prone, brushes are best eliminated. However, if you have thicker strands and dense hair, brushes are a godsend. Brushing should come last as the brush bristles are closely spaced together compared to other tools (fingers and wide spaced combs). The denman remains a very popular hair brush for naturals

6. Examine Your Hair

Once you are done combing, examine the hair that you have removed. Pay attention to whether you can see hair bulbs or not. Some people are strict and want to see that all hair has a bulb. I am more flexible and would be happy with about 60-70%%, accepting that my hair is kinky and will always sustain some breakage. The one thing that must be cut down on in order to retain length are those tiny little wisps of hair, those are never good.

Have you tried any of these tips and tricks? What techniques do you use to cut down on breakage when combing your hair?

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  2. I’ve been finger combing for for a while now. I find it helps maintain my natural texture and keeps the curls together. If given the choice I’d use my hands before a comb.

    I haven’t given up the use of combs all together, though. I always comb in the shower while I’m conditioning my hair. After I wash, condition and finger comb, I use a very big-toothed comb to go through it to make sure I’ve gotten all the kinks out….I guess old habits are hard to break :\

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  3. You can really wash hair with the twists still in? Cannot believe I never thought of that. This article has been a blessing! I was seriously about to place relaxer in my daughters hair, which I really do not want to do but it gets tempting sometimes. Her and I have totally different hair textures so I needed those ideas since what works for my hair usually doesn’t work for hers. Also, do I need to be getting her hair trimmed professionally like I do with my hair every few months? It seems the ends of her hair get very dry, tangled and full of knots at times which makes it difficult to not only comb out by to style.
    thanks!




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  4. @ Laura: Beautiful daughter, beautiful hair!

    Now that my hair is longer, I detangle in stages- 1. Finger detangle with a light spray of water, making sure my hair has light coating of an oil. 2. Wide tooth comb. 3. My trusty Tangle Teezer [only used maybe 1x/month] to aid in prepping hair for styling. Since I’ve gone to oil rinses, the amount of tangles and SSK’s is substantially diminished.

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  5. How is it possible to minimize the little wisps of hair? I mean there are always going to be SOME right? You can’t ever possibly comb your hair and end up with none of those little hairs on the floor when you’re done. It’s kind of impossible no matter how careful you are.

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    • For some hair (mine included), it is not possible to eliminate the wisps totally. However in order to retain length, you have to actively try to reduce the number that you see because those wisps represent hair you are not retaining.

      Being very gentle with your hair is the real key. The way to measure your success is that your hair should retain length.

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  6. I only comb my hair while wet & with a LOT of conditioner. For about a month,
    I tried just finger combing, but noticed my hair tangled more!

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  7. yall know what? i actually comb my hair dry! i wash with conditioner ONLY, usually i use aohsr or giovanni and some aussie moist maybe a liitle oils etc. right after i wash it i put my darcys leave-in and seal with a little jojoba oil. then i twist it and pin up til the next day. the next day, i use my qhemet a&ohc and put on my “new growth” and rub a little on the ends. by then my hair is streched and soft so i gently start with the ends (with a big comb)and work my way up. then my ma braids it up in cornrows again. but i have more hair coming out when i comb on wet hair than dry…go figure, everyones hair is NOT the same lol

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  8. Man came before the comb. The comb is a man-made invention and the jury is out on whether that is a good or a bad thing for women of color. Personally, I was using a Denman brush on sopping wet hair full of conditioner per the tightly curly method but so much hair is on the brush when I’m finished! So recently after reading about Cipriana from Urban Bush Babes and watching Sera2544 on Youtube detangle, I have been finger de-tangling with grapeseed or jojoba oil. You know what? I see a lot less hair combing out! The shed hair combs out naturally and there are no more clumps the size of a small animal in my palm. Just to make sure I had done a thorough job of finger combing, sometimes I go back over the sections with a comb. Only one or two hairs will be on the comb, so I must be doing something right. I don’t even need the comb. The key is to keep the hair stretched prior to dry detangling so that it’s not such an big job and do it in sections.

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  9. A tip that is very important that could have been included is combing your hair from the bottom up. Don’t start at the roots and try to work your way down, start at the ends and comb down, gradually going up as the bottom is detangled. trying to comb your hair from the roots down will cause breakage if hair is tangled at all. hope that makes sense!

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