*Pre­pared for BGLH by Meosha Tall of 1Me­Nat­u­ral­ly

Intro­duce your­self!
Hi All!!!! My name is Eden. I was born in Jamaica, but I cur­rent­ly reside in Con­necti­cut in route to the West Coast lol.

Why did you make the deci­sion to go nat­ur­al?
The cost. I was a sopho­more in col­lege and I moved to an area where relax­ers were twice as expen­sive than they were back home. I wasn’t able to afford it any longer, so going to the salon became spo­radic and it took a toll on the health of my hair. It start­ed to break off, thin, split and I had a seri­ous case of dan­druff (the corn­flake size).

It was extreme­ly frus­trat­ing because I went to col­lege with thick healthy bra-strap length hair and end­ed up with almost neck length hair by the time I decid­ed to stop get­ting relax­ers. If I had not moved far from home I’m pret­ty sure I would still be relaxed. Not because I was obsessed, but I real­ly had a great hair­dress­er. Even still, I’m soooo hap­py I’m a nat­ur­al head now! I have been nat­ur­al for 3 years as of Octo­ber 21, 2012.

How would you describe your tex­ture?
My tex­ture is 4a all over. I have a mix­ture of most­ly nor­mal and fine strands with a sec­tion of coarse strands behind my left ear—weird lol. I have a lot of hair, which can be tir­ing when she’s all out in all her glo­ry. Most peo­ple when they see my hair when I was relaxed and nat­ur­al say “OMG IT’S SO THICK!” This is main­ly because my hair is dense most­ly from the crown back. From the crown for­ward it’s not as dense­ly packed.

Describe your styling reg­i­men over the course of the month.
I think a lot of nat­ur­al vet­er­ans (not that I am one) can relate to the fact that at the begin­ning of your jour­ney you try EVERYTHING (styles, prod­ucts, rou­tines, band­wag­ons, etc.). I exper­i­ment­ed a lot in the ear­ly part of my jour­ney, but now, time and my nerves only per­mit me to wear two strand twists 90% of the time. I will do the occa­sion­al braid or twist out when I have the chance, but for the most part my hair is up and out of my way for 1–2 weeks at a time. I don’t use “styling prod­ucts” because nei­ther my hair nor my bud­get needs it. I real­ized my hair grew the most when I was too busy to play in it every oth­er day. I left it alone and then woke up one day and was like DANG GIRL your hair is long again.

What does wash day look like for you?
I fol­low a mod­i­fied Curly Girl reg­i­men.

1. Pre-poo (Tre­semme Nat­u­rals Vibrant­ly Smooth Con­di­tion­er or what­ev­er is on hand)
2. Detan­gle and Twist Prep (Using Goody Brush with pre-poo still in hair)
3. Water Rinse
Option­al (Sham­poo and Pro­tein Treat­ment)
4. Co-Wash (Tre­semme Nat­u­rals Vibrant­ly Smooth Con­di­tion­er)
5. Plop (Tshirt or Hair Tur­ban)
6. Mois­tur­ize (Gio­van­ni Direct Leave In or what­ev­er I’m exper­i­ment­ing with)
7. Seal (Cas­tor Oil)
**Mois­tur­ize and seal as need­ed
**Pro­tein treat­ments once a month (Ion Effec­tive Care Treat­ment)
**I will sham­poo once a month (Burt’s Bees More Mois­ture Rasp­ber­ry & Brazil Nut) usu­al­ly before I do a pro­tein treat­ment.
**Trim every 8–10 weeks or as need­ed.

Describe your favorite go-to hair­style for days when you don’t have a lot of time to style.
Two strand twists are my safe havens. When I’ve fin­ished twist­ing I either gath­er and pin them down in ran­dom places or I wear my infa­mous two strand twist bun. I luur­rve me some buns. Does that sound weird? Lol, but seri­ous­ly it’s my go to style since I can’t put my loose hair in a bun—way too thick.

How do you com­bat shrink­age?
Shrink­age isn’t a big deal to me. I wear my hair up any­way. But, when I do care I can just style on dry hair if that’s what I want to do. Still, I’m too low main­te­nance to wait for my hair to take a day to dry just to do an elon­gat­ed style.

What are some of your prob­lem areas (if any) that require spe­cial care and atten­tion?
Retain­ing mois­ture and my ends. It might be a sur­prise, but up until last month I strug­gled ridicu­lous­ly with retain­ing mois­ture. I know nat­ur­al hair is inert­ly dry, but my dry­ness was severe. I’ve spent who knows how much mon­ey on try­ing to find “it”. Well, last month I recent­ly revis­it­ed a leave in I shelved years ago and it turned out to real­ly work well for me. I had such an epiphany.

As far as my ends go, my hair loves to form those dread­ed sin­gle strand knots and gym­nas­tic splits all over the place so I con­stant­ly have to keep that in check with fre­quent search and destroy ses­sions and oil. I’m plan­ning on straight­en­ing my hair at the end of Novem­ber and doing a 1–2 inch trim to get rid of them and start fresh.

What are 2 do’s for your tex­ture?
Leave it alone, lol. Keep­ing it in two strand twists.

What are 2 don’ts for your tex­ture?
Wash n go’s. Ooooh chile! I love them and wore them when I had a twa, but wash n go’s now are ssk city for me.

Is there a blog/webpage where we can find you?
If you’re inter­est­ed in my hair jour­ney you can vis­it my Fot­ki page: http://tinyurl.com/edenfotki. I start­ed it when I decid­ed to tran­si­tion, and have every month, prod­uct, and style I’ve done since then doc­u­ment­ed. You can also fol­low me on Insta­gram: @iameden_


Just anoth­er lover of nat­ur­al hair and expres­sion.
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Yeah pret­ty hair too bad she so lone­ly and thirsty she has to lie about who she is believe lies and car­ry on with mar­ried men that don’t take care of their kids. Send­ing annoy­mous emails to hide cause she’s a cow­ard can’t stand up and be a women but god and kar­ma always come into play


gor­geous hair !


What is SSK?


thanks this


My room­mate big chopped and has 4A hair, How did you/what did you use to get such good curl defi­ini­tion?

Patricia Kayden

Her hair grew fast in 3 years. Love­ly.


Beau­ti­ful hair. That pony­tail is to die for!

Michelle@Radiant Brown Beauty

Beau­ti­ful hair. Seems like as your hair got longer, the curl pat­tern actu­al­ly loos­ened up a bit.


Great sto­ry and hair journey.love your hair!


This was such a great inter­view.

Eden, I too have fine strands in the front of my hair. Any advice for thick­en­ing?


Your hair looks exact­ly like mine I’m 18 and I nev­er real­ly under­stood the hair typ­ing thing so I guess I’m 4a but less dense and extreme­ly soft (which I hate because it tan­gles eas­i­ly no afros or puffs for me :(. I live by twists as well but its because I’m super lazy and I dont like peo­ple yank­ing my hair out.


absolute­ly beau­ti­ful hair and i can say that i agree those dry ends are the worst…still try­ing to find that prod­uct that keeps them mois­tur­ized for more than a day. i’ve tried gio­van­ni leave in in the past but the pj in me kept me try­ing oth­er things as well. maybe i’ll try it again..


Also.. Hair crush! I want thick beau­ti­ful hair like Eden’s:)

I used to have thick hair when i was using infu­sium23 (which has cas­tor oil in the top 3 ingre­di­ents i think), but now that I don’t use cas­tor oil any­more, my ends are kind of see thru (as it looks like I’ve been detan­gling rough­ly or too much on my ends– which is prob­a­bly the case)

but I have kind of a hypoth­e­sis..

I heard that cas­tor oil swells up the shaft of the hair. So could this be the rea­son why some nat­u­rals’ hair looks thick­er than oth­ers?


Let me just say…THOSE THICK, JUICY TWISTS WERE GIVING ME SUCH LIFE!!!!! Yes ma’am, I was dig­ging all of that.


Dit­to! I am learn­ing to keep my hands out of my hair as well!


Yeah…I call myself tak­ing a break in order to enjoy my loose hair in what I’m call­ing a kin­da-sor­ta-not-quite WNG BUT as soon as I saw that twist pony­tail I was like, “Okay, I need to go back into twists…” :)


My first thought when I saw her hair was WOW. Beau­ti­ful hair. And I love how full and lus­cious her twists looked.


Beau­ti­ful hair. I have 4a hair and short­er than your hair, but my hair is super thin. I don’t say fine lol. I would kill for your vol­ume and that pony­tail full of twists is just gor­geous.

michele antoinette

Your hair looks like mine but I nev­er con­sid­ered myself to be a 4a—-I’m so con­fuz­zled


wow, i have a twa and i have the same tex­ture and den­si­ty. i can’t wait to start exper­i­ment­ing with the thick­er twists. they’re love­ly. my sis­ter uses giovnanni’s leave in too so i guess i need to stop ignor­ing that prod­uct. one ques­tion for eden, have you tried the shea mois­ture prod­ucts? do you pre­fer the lighter leave ins to the creams?

thanks for shar­ing your tips and tricks


I tried shea mois­ture and it’s not real­ly for me. I don’t real­ly like the smell. My hair prefers thick­er leave ins, Gio­van­ni looks light but when you rub it in your hair its actu­al­ly pret­ty thick.


Great hair and island gal! You’re sell­ing me on the two strand twists!


Fot­ki says all her albums are emp­ty… :(


OMG’sh your hair is BLAZIN


Gor­geous! Go fel­low yaadie

Amma Mama

Beau­ti­ful hair


beau­ti­ful rich hair.…LOVE IT!!!


Wow her hair is gor­geous, and every pic love all the hair­styles. I want­ed to check­out the fot­ki account, but it gave the fol­low­ing message:Oops! Access Denied!

It appears, that this mem­ber has restrict­ed access to their account. We are sor­ry, but this account is avail­able for Fot­ki mem­bers only!


Sor­ry, try it now.


Thanks but when I just clicked on it now again, it’s emp­ty on the albums sec­tion for the account lol… Oh well I got some of your regime on here to try..


Sor­ry, I didn’t update all of my view­ing set­tings but I changed them. I tried to view it as a non-user and the albums are view­able now. Sor­ry guys

Tiff Dizzle

Yeah I tried to look at your pics and stuff and every­thing was emp­ty


Beau­ti­ful hair.… And I love your name… I have a 7 wk old w the same name… :-)


hair porn!

Reppin JA

Gor­geous hair & lady! Love the full­ness of your hair!


Woah at the den­si­ty of that pony­tail! Won­der if she is thick or fine strands.


that bun is RICH !


A long hair nat­ur­al who also was a long hair head relaxed, anoth­er exam­ple of if you always had long hair you will have long hair nat­ur­al or relax


Any­one can have long hair. It’s all in the main­te­nance. My hair was long when I was relaxed, because my styl­ist pro­mot­ed healthy hair prac­tices. Every­one of her clients whether they start­ed with long hair or not were able to grow their hair to bra strap or beyond. So I don’t nec­es­sar­i­ly agree with this state­ment.


So are you say­ing you dont have long hair as a nat­ur­al?!?!? Cause your com­ment have noth­ing to do what I said!


u sound dumb af, you def­i­nite­ly need to read what she said. before u start hol­ler­ing in print. dum­my


I didn’t say I don’t have long hair. I was refer­ring to your state­ment “anoth­er exam­ple of if you always had long hair you will have long hair nat­ur­al or relax”. There are a num­ber of ladies in the natural/relaxed com­mu­ni­ty who have nev­er had long hair and with healthy hair prac­tices have grown their hair to long lengths. Reniece & Co is a per­fect exam­ple of this.


+1 :) and great inter­view!

One thing though, I suf­fer from dry ends too (and per­haps pjism as well.. lol). What was the leave in prod­uct you shelved but are now enjoy­ing? I’d like to try it out.


her hair is AWESOME!! I love all her styles!


Gor­geous hair!


+1 and great inter­view. :)


Thank you for the oppor­tu­ni­ty!