5 Ways to Enjoy Your Hair While Transitioning!


By Christina of  The Mane Objective

When I first decided to transition my heat damaged hair, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. Sure, two or three months in wasn’t that big of a deal. Most of my hair was still heat damaged, and I could fake a wash n’ go if I needed to. But as the months progressed, and the new hair got bigger, I began running into a wall. Banana clips had become a joke. Scrunchies made my ponytails have alien head syndrome. I was beginning to resent my decision to forgo the heat. I mean, I loved my new thick natural hair (and the length I was getting), but managing those three months in-between flat ironing sessions proved to be a pain….until I learned how to enjoy my transitioner hair.

We transitioners are in a unique position, where half of our hair will cooperate with common natural styles (like twist and braid-outs), and the damaged half will look stringy, janky, and fall flat. We also have a hesitant-at-best relationship with heat tools (blow dryers, flat irons), because the evidence of their damage is still very much present. Although we covet huge curly-kinky fros and thick tresses of our wholly natural counterparts, there is still much we transitioners can do to enjoy the natural hair journey. We can:

1. Re-Vamp the Twist-Out

Traditional twist-outs just don’t work for me and my transitioning tresses. They also don’t work well for some naturals with looser curl patterns. Instead of having supple, rounded twists, we end up with these flat-looking things that consistently unravel. Fix that problem with a flat-twist bantu hybrid that looks something like this:


Set your hair with your favorite leave-in and holding products. Flat twist each section until you reach the “hanging” part of your hair, then twist normally. Place your index finger at the middle of your twist, and loop the hanging hair around itself until you get a bantu-knot esque shape. Secure with a bobby pin. Make sure your hair is completely dry before taking the style down. Fluff, shake it out (or not), and end up with something like this:


2. Take Braid-Outs to Another Level

One of the challenges for transitioners when attempting braid-outs is the inevitable tapering of the braid. Tapering causes your braid outs to look great on the un-damaged natural hair — leaving a nice wavy, uniform pattern, until you reach the heat or relaxer damage. Because the hair is irreversibly straight and thinner, waves transform down the shaft into these crispy crunchy zig-zag things that throw off the whole style. Alleviate that with a Satin Strip Braid-out! Cut an old satin scarf into strips (or buy a new one just to cut up…it doesn’t matter), set your hair with your favorite leave-in and holding products, and get to work!


As with all styles that involve manipulating or stretching your hair’s texture, make sure it is completely dry before removing the strips. Once dry, you will have a wavy, uniform pattern that will last for up to a week! For more information on Satin Strip Braid-outs, read here or watch my video tutorial.

3. Get Curls to the MAXXXX

If you walk around with big curly hair envy, and can’t wait to see what you’ll look like with a head full of voluminous curls, try a straw set! Straw sets are popular curl-creating options, common with sistas rocking shorter tresses. But even if you have longer hair (and about 3-4 hours), you can achieve amazing curls with a straw set. Even better, it’s a recession-proof alternative to purchasing a boatload of Flexi-Rods or super expensive Curlformers. All you need is drinking straws (I used 90) and bobby pins! For a breakdown on achieving an awesome straw set, click here.




4. Get Creative with Blow-Outs

Blow-outs are a funny sort on transitioner hair. One part of the hair is thick and lion-esque, and the rest looks almost like you flat-ironed it. Remedy that by creating some texture-blending definition within your blow-outs. I recommend creating big bantu-knots with a light styling serum, letting them set for a while, and then releasing them for super cute waves. Just remember to always use a heat protectant, and products that will allow you to retain some moisture within your hair. I recommend Tresemme Heat Tamer Spray ($3.99, Target), Beautiful Textures Curly to Straight Flat Iron Silkener ($5.89, Sally Beauty), and 100% Pure Jojoba Oil ($7.99, Trader Joe’s) to help protect your hair in its blow-dried state.



5. Still Have a Healthy Relationship with Heat

Just because you are transitioning, that doesn’t mean your flat iron is off-limits. I know, this seems counter-intuitive to those like me, with heat damage. Chances are, your hair is heat damaged not because of the flat iron itself, but because of how you used it. Maybe you made too many passes over the same sections of hair. Perhaps you had the temperature up too high. Maybe your heat protectant wasn’t effective enough. Or even, your flat iron is outdated or made of the wrong material. Quite possibly, it was a combination of all of the above.

My flat ironing arsenal

Before safely re-engaging with heat, check all the parameters above. Make sure your flat iron has an unworn ceramic or tourmaline coating, or is made of either material. These materials conduct heat better, are more effective at straightening at lower temperatures, and decrease the amount of damage done to the hair. Next, check the age of your flat iron. If you have had it for more than 5 years, you may want to look at getting a new one. Using an old flat iron increases the probability of faulty temperature gauges or shortages — meaning that your iron could actually be hotter than what it says, or cooler — causing you to make extra passses.

Next, check your heat protectant. I advise using at least 2 or 3 products that mesh well, don’t cause massive buildup, and can protect your hair along each state of the straightening journey. My picks in this area are Tresemme Heat Tamer Spray (Target, $3.99), ApHogee Keratin & Green Tea Restructurizer spray; which activates best with heat (Sally Beauty, $6.99), and Garnier Sleek & Shine Anti-Frizz Serum (Target, $4.79). Lastly in the product department, I am going to make an unpopular recommendation — Ion Straightening Shampoo (Sally Beauty, $6.49). It works by depositing silicones (oh, the humanity!) and polymers onto the hair that weigh it down (although you can’t feel them), making it smoother and working against the hair’s natural tendancy to curl back up. Now, your hair won’t look magically straight, but you will notice significantly shorter blow drying and flat ironing time.

Two more things on this subject matter and I’m out — check your temperature and your method. If you’re a fan of The Natural Haven Bloom like me, then you’ve seen Jc’s article on what happens to hair at each temperature range. Now, each head of hair is different. But as a general rule of thumb, aim to keep your irons in the 300-350F range. I personally straighten at 350 (360 in my crown) — but again, do what works best for your hair without causing damage. Checking your method involves evaluating how you go about straightening your hair. Do you do a series of mini-passes along each section, or 3-4 full passes on each section? To reduce damge, you may fare better if you part your hair in smaller sections, and do 1-2 passes. Now, you’re ready to safely engage in heat styling and not lose all your transitioner progress! For more tips, click here.




What are some other ways transitioners can enjoy their hair?

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Christina Patrice

Christina Patrice

Born, raised, and living in Los Angeles, Christina is BGLH's resident transitioning expert and product junkie. In addition to loving all things hair, she is a fitness novice and advocate of wearing sandals year-round. For more information on transitioning, natural hair, and her own hair journey, visit maneobjective.com. Or, if you like pictures follow Christina on Instagram @maneobjective.

  • Angeal

    Your post is the TRUTH! I really didn’t want to transition because I like to style my hair but now I found better alternatives to avoid heating tools and grow healthy longer hair (which due to abuse should have been down to my waste). Thank you!

  • Edak

    Pls I want some direction on the blow out. Do I have to do the bantu knot before or after blow drying?

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  • Karen

    It has been exactly 7 months since my last relaxer and I have an arsenal of tools to maintain my length as I transition. Despite all of this, I am at my wits end and was ready to do the big chop (reluctantly). I searched Google for transitioning to natural haircuts and happily found this page. Instead of the BC, I will trim my hair and use your flat twist/bantu knot technique. My bantu knots never look right so I’m very excited at the possibility of having my curl look something close to yours!! Thank you!!!

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  • Danielle

    Omg! I am going to try the blowout bantu knots. I stopped doing bantuknots because they take forever to dry.

  • kim2

    Wow!! This information was so helpful to me! Just what I was looking for…. and more! Thanks Beautiful for sharing. :)

  • Very nice ways you give that how to enjoying your hair while transitioning.thanks for this post.

  • Aisha

    Thank you! Since transitioning I’ve had a few hairstyle setbacks. And i was really confused with how to wear my hair effectively. After trying braid outs & ..failing, i had no clue what to try next. Protective styling transitioning hair, for me. Has been a headache. But this. This was a revelation. Now i feel like i can actually work with my hair.

  • Eva Santiagaa

    OMG love! Ahhh so beautiful! Does anyone know how to tighten natural curls? Mine are a mix of waves and 3bs and I hate the loose curls I want them tight, I am sooo close to start straightening and permanent straightening! :(((

  • hair transitioning is boring for me as i love the heat product which makes mwe more attractive.

  • Yeah all the five you shared over here are the best way for hair transitioning. though its not a preferable way.

  • I love all these styles, just recently I did bantu knots and they came out great :)

    Keep up the good work ladies ;)

  • BeautifulBrownSkin

    I am a 16 year old girl and I’m seriously struggling with my transitioning hair. I’m constantly buying new products to try to moisturize my hair. Sulfate free shampoos, countless protein treatments, creams, leave ins—you get it. My hair is SO dry. And to make it worse, my family (the women of course) tell me how “bushy” and “nappy” and “raggedy” my hair looks. And that I “NEED a perm”. I find myself stressed out and even crying sometimes because I just want beautiful natural hair. I want to wear the hair god gave me and feel beautiful. :( could someone give me some tips please?

  • Bebe

    Awwh I feel your pain BeautifulBrownSkin. My family keeps discouraging me too. But with time, they’ll come to accept your decision (My mum got me some hairbands this week!). I also have very dry hair, and itchy scalp too because of dandruff, and what to do about that is what I’m out on the internet looking for. So at the moment, the only advice I can give you is what to do about your family. Hang on. Whenever you feel discouraged, go to step 1 of this article; remind yourself why you chose to do this. There are many articles on hair types and I suggest you find out your hair type as it will make the journey easier. Knowing your hair type will let you know what hairstyles will and will not work for you, and give you the chance to experiment with easy go-to styles when you finally accept what your hair can do. Knowing your hair type will also help you control your hair because you know just what your hair will be like each time you apply a product to it or leave it with no products in (which actually makes it drier). Once you gain control of your hair, you’ll be making the hair God gave you look beautiful to many eyes. I wish you all the best :)

  • Bree

    My last relaxer was only 4 months ago when I graduated from high school and I moved up north with my aunt and everyone around me up here is natural and I want to try it but I can’t decide