*Prepared for BGLH by Meosha Tall of 1MeNaturally


Introduce yourself!
Hello beauties! My name is Jessica Marie Franklin. I’m 21 years young and I live in New Brunswick, New Jersey.

Why did you make the decision to go natural?
Well! My father is black and my mother is Italian and German. So my hair is a combination of the two. Even though my hair was like nothing my mom had ever seen (lol), she did a greatttt job at doing my hair growing up. She styled it in all types of cute pigtails and braids and such. But when I started getting older I wanted long, flowy, straight hair. I absolutely hated my curls. So she took me to the Dominican hair salon and they told her to put a relaxer in my hair to make it straight–just how I wanted it. When we heard that, we thought it was a miracle! Lol, but eventually I realized that it made my hair soo frail and dry, and it obviously didn’t curl at all.

So years later while my aunt, sister, and I were vacationing in Jamaica, this hilarious white dude with huge big blonde curls came up to my sister and me. He told us how he was a celebrity hairdresser and loves curly hair, but he basically said that our curls were a hot mess, ha! He was very blunt (and kinda rude lol)—but that actually was the push we needed. 6 months later I stopped getting relaxers and let my hair grow out long enough for me to feel comfortable to cut it. Then in May 2007, I did the big chop! And it was by far one of theeee best decisions I’ve ever made! I’ve been natural for 6 years. I went natural the end of my freshman year of high school.

How would you describe your texture?
My hair is a mixture of 3B/3C. Like most naturals, my hair is different all over. The bottom of my hair has tighter, frizzy, 3C curls. Then it goes to 3B, then 3C at my crown, then 3B towards the front again, lol! And some curls are literally a mixture of both. They are tight and springy and they can get huge and crazy if I don’t tame it. It definitely has a mind of its own! Which I love and hate, lol. It can get hugeee and voluminous (my favorite), or it can be really flat, depending on the day. 2nd and 3rd day hair is the best! It is also super thick. But it is soft, like a pillow! And I love it :).

Describe your styling regimen over the course of the month.
I’ll tell you my style regimen for the week, because I do the same thing each week for the entire month. My favorite style for my hair is a wash and go. While my hair is still soaking wet from washing it (it must be dripping wet so that there is a lot of moisture and it won’t get as frizzy), I separate my hair into 6 sections and apply Kinky Curly Knot Today Leave-In to each section. I make sure to saturate each strand because I like each curl to be defined. Then I apply Kinky Curly Curling Custard and do the same thing. Finally, I seal each section with Aubrey Organics Pure Aloe Vera. I dry my hair a little bit with an old t-shirt (towels make your curls frizzy) and then let it air dry! Then it grows nice and big like I like it!

Bantu knotout two strand twist copy

By day 4 of my wash and go I either wash it again (if I have an event or something I want to go to) or I put it in a protective style for a few days. This is pretty much a must because my curls can get superrr tangled! When I keep my hair out too long it takes like 30-45 minutes to detangle! But “ain’t nobody got time foh dat”! So after 4 days I put my hair into about 8 two strand twists using coconut oil, and then slick it into a bun. I don’t really like the way I look in twists or braids so the bun works perfectly for me. Then by the end of the week I wash it and do it all over again! Also, sometimes I do a bantu knot twist out and I keep that style for about a week. That whole look is inspired by the fabulous Tracy Ellis Ross—love her!

What does wash day look like for you?
I can’t even lie, I dread wash day lol. I have to wash it when I am in a good mood and patient! Cause I have a lottt of hair. I cleanse every other week and I co-wash in between. So I co-wash once week, cleanse the other week, and so on. I co-wash with TRESemme Naturals Conditioner. It is awesome! It has great slip, so it is perfect for detangling as well. When I cleanse I use Bragg’s Organic Apple Cider Vinegar (ACV). I fill a spray bottle with ¾ water and ¼ ACV. Then I spray each of the 6 sections with the mixture. I massage/scrub my scalp and curls, then rinse! Right after I’ll finger detangle each section with the TRESemme Naturals Conditioner. Finally, I apply Shea Moisture Deep Treatment Mask and go under the Huetiful Hair Steamer for 20 minutes. The steamer is awesome because it really penetrates the conditioner into my hair, which I really need! I rinse, then style! When I co-wash it’s the same steps except I replace the ACV with TRESemme Naturals Conditioner.

Describe your favorite go-to hairstyle for days when you don’t have a lot of time to style.
High buns are perfect for me! I think they are super cute and easy and quick to do. I like to make them really big! I wear buns a lot especially since I’m a college student and really busy. As I said before, they are a type of protective style for me and they also help to prevent tangles.

How do you combat shrinkage?
I get a lottt of shrinkage! So after my hair dries, I pull my hair and blow dry the roots a little bit. This helps so much to give me some length. Also, putting it in a high bun for a few hours helps too.

What are some of your problem areas (if any) that require special care and attention?
Definitely my ends. They are extremely fragile and split really easily. So I give them extra love by moisturizing them every night—either with coconut oil or just pure water, and then sealing them with Aloe Vera. I also finger detangle instead of using combs to prevent breakage.

What are 2 do’s for your texture?
Moisturizing! My hair gets very dry. So I deep condition every week and moisturize every night. Also believe it or not, eating healthy is a biggg 2 do! Ever since I changed my eating habits my hair started growing faster and the texture got softer and shinier! Your outer beauty is a reflection of your inner beauty, so if you are healthy on the inside then your hair will be healthy too! Drinking tons of water and eating lots of veggies makes huge a difference. Also I drink a green smoothie packed with veggies every day that truly makes an impact.

What are 2 don’ts for your texture?
Using combs! Ever since I stopped using combs and finger detangled instead, I’ve retained a lot more length.

Is there a blog/webpage where we can find you?
Yes! Follow me everywhere please! I have a website that’s about Natural Hair, Health, Beauty and God. I go into a lot more detail about my hair there so if you want to know more, check it out :). I also really enjoyed being apart of BGLH and I hope I helped and encouraged some of you with your hair journey! If you have any questions, please feel free to comment here or contact me! Thanks for reading 🙂 Xoxo
Website: Heygorjess.com
Twitter: @Heygorjess
Instagram: @Heygorjess
Email: Jessica@heygorjess.com


Just another lover of natural hair and expression.
- Style Icon Coordinator for BGLH

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OMG Super Gorg Hair and Beautiful young lady! I have a somewhat similar hair regime for my wash day (which I actually love lol). I pre-poo, co-wash, deep condition under my Huetiful Steamer (love!) and moisturize/seal. I am only 2 years + mths in from my BC and I can certainly say with crazy respect that you’ve done a tremendous job taking care of your hair for the last 6 years: Major kudos to you! I will be checking out/supporting your blog as well!!! P.S-You look very familiar by the way-I won’t say from where though lol. Take care HeyGorJess!




Awwww, your hair is JUST like mine! and I went to Rutgers too 🙂 I’ll be coming back to do my MA as well. I guess I can’t get RU outta my system, lol. good luck!


I almost didn’t believe that it was your real hair,i thought it was a weave,your hair is beautiful.


Shoutout to NB! I’m from South River! Good luck at RU!


lol. ooo Ok! Rutgers is a great school! good luck in your studies!

Love JAH

We are very much alike in our hair regimine as well as our dedication to health, beauty, natural hair and ‘God’…I also live in central Jersey!!! Beautiful girl, hair and styles!


Hey @Rae!! I actually put where I go to school! I go to Rutgers right now, but I grew up in Phillipsburg, NJ (no one know’s where it is–its super country lol!)


Lovely hair! New Brunswick, Nj!!!! That’s where i’m from! Did you go to New Brunswick High school or Science and Tech?


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@GaleAllen Lol yes wash day can be crazy! But yes revisit those products again and I don’t re-wet my hair! So try not wetting it and it should prevent the build up! And yea wide tooth combs are still good! But finger detangling is the best if you can build up the patience :). Its hard, I know! lol


@jjac401 Aw thank you soo much! I am soo happy that I was able to encourage you!! <3 @7Fille lol your not wasting anytime! Yes Aloe Vera is muchhhh lighter and doesn't weigh your hair down or make it oily. It also depends on your hair texture! Some people can handle heavier oils and some cant! You should def still be able to get the volume you want with Aloe now! 🙂


@Kyna thank you!! Yes I totally agree! It makes being natural so much easier! @thekinkyapothecary awe thank you soo much!! That really means a lot to me <3


I love your regimen is so simple!! Less is more! =)

The Kinky Apothecary

Beautiful hair, and your personality oozes right off the page.


WOW what a beautiful lady with beautiful hair! This interview is very informative and encouraging! Thanks!


Your curls are gorgeous! I was going to run out and get some aloe vera last night to try for the first time, but got distracted AGAIN. I don’t mind oils, but they weigh my hair down and I look like I have an 80’s jheri curl. 🙁 Jessica, your volume is beautiful. Getting my keys and in the car now…

Gayle Allen
Luv the way you take of your hair, nice look and style also!! Your hair sounds similar in as far as the tangles go! And wash do WOOO! I know what you mean. Going to try and finger detangle more, I still use a wide tooth comb, but have to be XTRA gentle, my curls are 3C/4B with 3B at the nape. Gonna try the Knot Today again, use to use it for wash and goes when my hair was much shorter but found a build up with everyday wetting. Now that my hair is longer it may have better… Read more »

Her hair is AMAZING! I love it. Beautiful lady!