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By Irene of NaturalFantastic.com

Weave and wigs can work great as protective styles.  They allow you to leave your hair natural and enjoy the convenience of straight hair. No shrinkage to contend with, less detangling, protection from the weather and versatility. However, for some women it may be time to let their natural hair out, to shine in all its glory. Here are some benefits to doing this. Hopefully this will encourage you to take the next step and come away from being reliant on weaves and wigs.

So what are the benefits of ditching the weave and letting your hair out more often?

1. You will become better at managing your natural hair
As with most things practice makes perfect. The more you leave your hair out the more practice you get at managing it. You will learn the best techniques for maintaining it on a daily basis. This includes forming a hair regimen that suits your routine and lifestyle. You will also have the opportunity to eliminate products and techniques that do not work well on your hair. If your hair is packed away under the weave or wig cap every month, you many only see it once in a while. Some people only take their hair out of the weave to wash it, then they reinstall it all over again. If you wear your hair out regularly you will become familiar with it and learn the best techniques managing it.

2. You will be in a better position to assess the health of your hair
Detangling my hair this week made me realize it was definitely time for a protein treatment. Because I am familiar with my hair I noticed there was more shedding than usual. I was able to rectify this straightaway because I had access to my hair. When your hair is weaved you don’t have immediate access to it. If there is a problem you will not know until you take the weave out. By this time more damage may have occurred that could have been avoided. When your hair is out you can assess it regularly and decide what action to take, such as: a trim, a wash, a treatment or a moisturizing boost.

3. It is easier to moisturize
Many of us know that we should moisturize our real hair regularly when it is in a weave. How many of us actually do this though? I certainly didn’t.  It seemed too complicated at the time and out sight out of mind. I spent more time grooming the weave because it was the weave that was visible to everyone. I would take the time to style it with curling tongs or a flat-iron, moisturize it and blend it with my real hair so it would look its best. I would usually forget about my real hair underneath. If your hair is out more often you will know immediately when it becomes dry and be in a better position to moisturize it. You are also more likely to moisturize it on a regular basis and prevent it from drying out in the first place.  When it is hidden away under the weave, it’s easy to forget about it.

4. Others will become used to your natural hair
If you are concerned about the reaction friends, family and work colleagues will have to your natural hair remember that the sooner they see it the sooner they will get used to it. If people see you with your hair out all the time it really doesn’t become that much of a big deal after some time.  They also get to see how beautiful it is natural.  You may have to deal with comments and questions, some may be negative but you will be better equipped to deal with them after some time. Some people may not admit that they feel more comfortable with you when you wear your weave. The sooner they realize that you are not going to hide your hair away for their benefit the better.

There is also that dreaded feeling you get when you have to take your weave out and don’t have an appointment to get it reinstalled straightaway. You kind of feel naked or may not be sure how to style your natural hair in between weaves. Some of us dread bumping into people that are used to seeing us with our weaves. If you wear your hair out you will no longer have to deal with the dreaded ‘in between weaves’ feeling. What you see is what you get with natural hair.

5. You will become a hair styling queen
Styling your natural hair will become second nature to you. It’s like learning to play the guitar. If you never take it out of the case how will you ever learn to play it? Your natural hair is like a blank canvas, there are endless styling tutorials on YouTube and you may also surprise yourself  by inventing some styles and techniques of your own. Weaves and wigs are great protective styles but there are numerous protective styles you can try with your own hair that are elegant and appropriate for all occasions. These include two strand twists, buns, roll tuck and pins, French braids and various updos. Check out CharyJay’s and Fusion of Cultures’ YouTube channels.  They are protective style queens. If their styles seem too complicated, you can  adapt them to suit you personally. These tutorials should provide you with inspiration; you don’t have to follow them exactly.  Remember natural hair is very versatile so there is no reason to get bored or run out of styling options. Check out the series: The Versatility of Natural Hair.

6. You will not have to worry about the negative aspects of weaves, wigs and hair extensions
Many of us gasped in shock when we saw the first photos of Naomi Campbell’s receding hairline. The damage to her hairline was believed to have been caused by years of wearing weaves or hair extensions. In an industry that promotes a certain standard of beauty you can imagine the pressure she was under as a black model to look a certain way. Over the years more photos of her have come out highlighting the same problem that only appears to be getting worse. It is as if the fake hair on her head is taken care of more than her real hair underneath. Traction alopecia can occur if your hairline is constantly put under pressure through sewing, braiding, glues and tight comb attachments.

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Naomi Cambell

Naomi Campbell

The problems associated with weaves are unlikely to affect women who simply use them once in a while for diversity. They are going to have more of an impact on those women who rely on weaves for everyday use. Another negative aspect is that sometimes weaves look awkward, we have come a long way in ‘weave technology’ but it still isn’t perfect. Sometimes you see people’s tracts showing, your hair doesn’t blend well, or you have hair that sheds like crazy. I don’t consider any of this easier than having my natural hair out. You will also save a lot of money. We seem to be the only race that wears hair texture that doesn’t match our natural hair. Some of us don’t even wear weaves that match our natural afro texture when it is straightened (Yaki).  The silky textures seemed to be preferred.  I’m glad to see more black owned companies introducing afro-textured weaves that compliment our natural hair.

Even Beyoncé has experienced downside of lace front wigs

Even Beyoncé has experienced the downside of lace front wigs

7. Natural hair only gets better with time
The more you learn about managing your natural hair the more it will thrive. Most of us had to deal with negative comments from family members when we first went natural. However, the more time that passes the fewer and far between these comments become and we even start hearing more compliments from the same people. Carefully managing your natural hair will result in growth, better styling techniques and overall healthy hair. Like wine, natural hair only gets better with time. Don’t hide away behind fake hair, week in, week out. This is choosing second best to the beautiful hair on your head already.

“No one should feel that they have to wear a weave to have presentable hair; a weave should be a conscious styling choice, not a crutch”

~ Audrey Davis-Sivasothy~

Do you prefer weaves to wearing your hair out? Share your thoughts below.

Irene is the creator of NaturalFantastic.com. A UK girl of Nigerian descent, she is now living in Australia. She created NaturalFantastic.com to encourage other women to embrace their natural hair and to share some advice on going natural, and staying natural.

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68 Comments on "Perpetual Weaving as a “Protective Style?” 7 Reasons You Shouldn’t Do It"

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Tamia

I’ve vowed to never wear a weave. Although I’m only 16, i speaks as if not sure. I only would consider getting them on special occasions such as graduation, by the ill be 2 years post relaxer, currently transitioning, and that’s even far fetched. I’ve heard they help your hair grow but then if you don’t take care of it, there’s this.
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Zhana

This is horrible, this girl was veing foolish for leaving in her weave that long.

Zhana

Hmmm Idk. I wear wigs to protect my hair during the winter. I apply castor oil to my braids and scalp everyday and do the baggy method every other day. Also i takeout my braids on the second week and wash, oil rinse, condition, detangle,deep condition, apply leave in and seal oh and also was my braids in between. My hair has been growing and breakage is minimal or none.. But that’s just me..

Jae
We should all be self aware about what we do personally with our hair, but still be very careful how we express our opinions to others. For every reason we shouldn’t wear weaves and wigs, we have the same amount of examples of women who have successfully worn them and have healthy hair. I am one of them and enjoy the versatility mostly because I would be bald with the number of colors I utilize. I appreciate this article as a guide only and not a rule to myself and those who choose to wear weaves and wigs even “natural”… Read more »
Kelly
When I wore my hair loose, I didn’t retain as much length as I have wearing braid extensions off and on. I most like them because I swim and exercise. Also, when I wore my natural hair loose I worried over it too much – products regimen, length retention, etc. Now I moisturize and go and I do scalp massages. Also, braid extensions have been a part of African and Black American culture for centuries; so I don’t think it’s a negative or odd cultural hair practice. While I don’t believe extensions should be installed too tightly on incessantly, I… Read more »
TINA

THROW THE DAMN WEAVES IN THE GARBAGE YOU PHONEY. WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO FOOL. FULL OF INSECURITY THAT YOU NEED TO GLUE, TACK, SOW SOMEONE ELSE’S HAIR INTO YOUR HEAD. THANKS ALOT FOR GIVING THIS DISPICABLE PRACTICE BUSINESS

Elle
Beautifully written! I “perpetually weaved” 15 years ago when I stopped perming my hair. I avoided my perimeter, had talented stylists and achieved amazing and healthy results. I did this for years. My reasons however were fear, insecurity and lack of styling know-how. Fake hair was an attempt to hide. But I grew. It was a long, hard and euphoric process – and it’s not over, but I now know and love who I am. I no longer hide anything, Lol! Over the years I’ve shaved my head bald at least 4 times, worn pretty TWAs, routinely wear ‘undefined’ hair,… Read more »
ida voyder
I’m a “see me as I am” kinda girl. Have never worn a weave, but have seen many with it – long story short doesn’t look pretty with the receding hairline to behind the ears, that was the postal lady that delivers mail in my area, also a former co-worker with the same problem. In that case my former boss would compliment her telling her how beautiful her hair looked, but she was missing her hairline. I never said anything because I figured she had mirrors at home, and there were also mirrors at our workplace. Sad to say I’ve… Read more »
Love

A lady I work with wears weave and wigs and she has no edges. She said she wears the weaves and wigs because she has no edges. I suggested the weaves and wigs maybe the cause therefore how could they be the solution? She said what is she supposed to do walk around with nappy hair and no edges smh and lol

Pat

No, never wore a weave. I’ve heard some that wear them say that their scalps itch alot due to the cornrowing to hold it up so I knew that wasn’t for me.

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